It has been one year since I had over 3000 FUE grafts, and this is what I look like (photo)

Having a hair transplant is not a solution if either the surgeon or the team or both do not have the skills to do the hair transplant properly. Your problem is not an uncommon problem. I would normally suggest that you return to your surgeon and ask him to make this ‘right’ with you, but with such a failure, I don’t believe that I would trust your surgeon and their team to do this again. I would just ask for your money back. You may have to accept some degree of balding as your donor area may have been depleted enough not to allow another FUE hair transplant. A strip surgery may yet be an option. See another doctor with experience, and find out what is left in your donor area as well as what, if anything, you can achieve with your remaining donor supply. You can do Scalp Micropigmentation and look normal if you are willing to have a shaved look (see here: https://ift.tt/2FdEOiG).